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Worried
About A Windfall? By Jon Flynn Most of us dream of being
in a situation where we find ourselves as the sudden recipient of a large lump
sum, that surely will take away all of our “worries”. The source of this “windfall” can be from a
variety of places like an inheritance from a loved one, a distribution from an
employer retirement plan, lottery winnings, the sale of mineral rights, the
sale of property, land, or even a family business. Whatever the source of the funds, contrary to
what many of us might expect, I find that the “worries” for these “would be
fortunate folks ” often grows rather than wanes. But how can this be the
case? First – Sudden wealth can
have a way of bringing out the worst in not only us, but in our family and
friends as well. Pride, greed,
envy - you can pretty much rattle off the entire list of the Seven Deadly Sins.
They all are in play here. Sure, too
much money can get you into a lot of trouble and cause you do some pretty
stupid things. But, whether you act out poorly
or not, you can be sure that some family and friends will still scrutinize
everything thing that you do or say going forward out of just plain old
jealousy. This can create feelings of
immense guilt in you. As a result, don’t
be surprised if your long-standing understanding of your own identity feels
threatened, so it’s important here to try and keep perspective. Remember that your financial situation
doesn’t define you as a person. Even if out of jealousy other people may
attempt to put you in a box. Secondly - What the heck
do we do with this money? This is a
question often asked and would seemingly have an easy answer, “spend it”, of course. That’s only party true. Spending is the easy part. The hard part is learning how to protect it
and make it last. Unfortunately, to
protect it for the future and provide a real lasting sense of financial
security, you’ll need to do some thoughtful planning. Here are some questions that may possibly
keep you up at night: How do we
invest it? What charities should
we share it with? How will the
money be taxed when you first receive it as well as after it has been invested? How do we thoughtfully pass it to loved
ones after we die? Everybody situation is
different and arriving at solutions can get complicated. My advice is always to take your time, let
the money “cool off” while you gather all the information you need to make
informed choices. Second, lean on
professionals like accountants, lawyers, and financial planners that only come
highly recommended by trusted sources. Jon Flynn is a
Certified Financial Planner TM and owner of Flynn Financial in
Eynon. He is a Representative of Securities America, Inc., Member FINRA/SIPC
and of Securities America Advisors, Inc. Flynn Financial and Securities America
are unaffiliated. Mr. Flynn can be
reached at 570-876-5015.
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